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            &#039;Liebeskummer&#039;: How to talk about dating like a German
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            People who are dating love to talk about their hopes and fears and people who aren&#039;t love to hear about them. Here’s our guide to the German phrases you need to know to get in on the dating conversation.
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            https://www.thelocal.de/20250708/liebeskummer-how-to-talk-about-dating-like-a-german
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        <pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2025 15:35:24 +0200</pubDate>
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            Four stories that might explain Germany’s problem with Valentine’s Day
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            The most romantic day of the year or an out and out nightmare? We look at the stories which could explain why Germans don&#039;t typically embrace Valentine&#039;s Day – and why this trend might be changing among new generations.
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            https://www.thelocal.de/20260213/four-stories-that-explain-germanys-problem-with-valentines-day
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        <pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2026 13:17:51 +0100</pubDate>
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            Can you be sacked in Germany for a workplace romance?
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            Germany&#039;s strict protections of personal freedom and privacy extend to the workplace, limiting employers&#039; ability to interfere with office romances, but there are some rules to be aware of.
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        <pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2025 17:36:08 +0200</pubDate>
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            &#039;Germans are brutally honest’: How hard is it to date in Germany?
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            Dating isn&#039;t easy wherever you are in the world. We asked readers and experts to find out their experiences and tips on finding love in Germany.
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        <pubDate>Fri, 14 Feb 2020 14:10:29 +0100</pubDate>
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            Tinder to explain why some EU users have to pay more for the app
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            Dating app Tinder has vowed to tell EU users why they are being charged different fees for the same service, after Brussels opened a probe into its pricing system.
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            https://www.thelocal.de/20240308/tinder-to-explain-why-some-eu-users-have-to-pay-more-for-the-app
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        <pubDate>Fri, 08 Mar 2024 10:06:42 +0100</pubDate>
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            INTERVIEW: How to find lasting love as a woman in &#039;highly rational&#039; Germany
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            Bonn-based dating and relationships coach Sami Wunder shared her own success story with The Local&#039;s Germany in Focus podcast, as well as some tips for those looking for love in Germany. 
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            https://www.thelocal.de/20230220/interview-how-to-find-lasting-love-as-a-woman-in-highly-rational-germany
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        <pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2023 19:15:24 +0100</pubDate>
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            TELL US: What are the secrets to a successful relationship with a German?
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            Many people who get together with a German find German culture is more foreign and trickier to handle than they at first thought. We&#039;d love to hear about how readers in relationships with Germans have learned to manage the cultural divide. 
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            https://www.thelocal.de/20230208/tell-us-what-are-the-secrets-to-a-successful-relationship-with-a-german
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        <pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2023 17:53:13 +0100</pubDate>
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            Cabbage and Christmas: What the French and Germans really think of each other
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            From baguettes to Birkenstocks, clichés on France and Germany die hard, even as the two countries celebrate 60 years since the post-war treaty establishing friendship between the two European giants after decades of rivalries and conflict.
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            https://www.thelocal.de/20230118/cabbage-and-christmas-what-the-french-and-germans-really-think-of-each-other
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        <pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 10:38:13 +0100</pubDate>
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            How Berlin couples are navigating open relationships during the lockdown
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            While Berlin’s clubs, bars and restaurants are currently closed due to the national shutdown, the pandemic may have also forced other aspects of life to close, including open relationships. 
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        <pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2021 16:57:00 +0100</pubDate>
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            How a Bavarian supermarket is helping shoppers find love amid shutdown
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            One Bavarian supermarket is giving singles the chance to find love - or at least flirt behind FFP2 masks - every weekend.
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            https://www.thelocal.de/20210201/how-a-bavarian-supermarket-is-helping-shoppers-find-love-amid-shutdown
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        <pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2021 10:45:26 +0100</pubDate>
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            10 reasons why you should date (or even fall in love with) a German
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            The Local spoke with an American-German matchmaker based in Wiesbaden to get some (much needed) tips on dating a German. After consulting with her German clients, she came up with some sound advice on finding Teutonic bliss.
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            https://www.thelocal.de/20170816/10-reasons-why-you-should-date-or-even-fall-in-love-with-a-german
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        <pubDate>Wed, 16 Aug 2017 14:36:12 +0200</pubDate>
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            VIDEO: How to flirt during a pandemic? Get a German dating coach
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            Coronavirus restrictions have made it very hard for single people in Germany to &#039;make a move&#039; on potential partners. But one Berlin-based flirting coach is showing lonely singletons how it can be done, even during a pandemic. 
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            &#039;Love is not tourism&#039;: How Germany wants to bring couples separated by pandemic together
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            One partner in Germany, the other abroad: many long-distance partners have been separated during the coronavirus pandemic. Here are their stories, amid the political push to reunite them soon.  
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        <pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2020 12:15:20 +0200</pubDate>
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            What&#039;s the advice for sex and dating in Germany during the coronavirus crisis?
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            Some countries have issued frank sex advice for single people, while others have kept it vague. What&#039;s the official advice in Germany when it comes to dating in the time of corona?
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            https://www.thelocal.de/20200529/whats-the-advice-for-sex-and-dating-in-germany-during-the-coronavirus-crisis
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        <pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 18:10:17 +0200</pubDate>
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            German word of the day: Die Zuneigung
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            Roses are red, violets are blue, Die Zuneigung is affection for you... 
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        <pubDate>Fri, 14 Feb 2020 12:30:55 +0100</pubDate>
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            &#039;Sex is easy to find in Berlin&#039;: Foreigners on love, hook-ups and friendship in Germany
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            Language is a barrier and Berlin is “Never Never Land” – but our readers say there are also positive parts to meeting people in Germany, including the fact non-romantic love often blossoms.
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            Dating apps: The unlikely tool that helped me settle in Germany
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            In her native UK, writer Miriam Partington was ready to ditch dating apps. But in Berlin she found them to be the perfect tool for getting settled, free from frustration.
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            https://www.thelocal.de/20190910/dating-apps-the-unlikely-tool-that-helped-me-settle-in-germany
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            Love study: Germans have average of &#039;3.4 relationships in their lifetime&#039;
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            A German love story just may be a series of a few love stories, according to a study of over 4,000 internet users from throughout Germany.
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            Share your experiences: What is dating really like in Germany?
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            Are you single and loving it, coupled up, casually dating or looking for love? We want to hear about your experiences of dating and relationships in Germany for upcoming articles.  
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            It&#039;s not impossible: the ups and downs of dating in Germany
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            Whether on the market or coupled up, it’s not so easy to meet and date in Germany. The Local talked to a matchmaker and singles across the country to find out the difficulties - as well as the advantages - of dating here.
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